the state of affairs by esther perel

have to admit that my expectations were coloured by the fact that esther perel is a psychologist, living and working in usa. so i expected some level of moralisation since the subject of the book is romantic infidelity, but this was a good lesson on recognising your own bias. dr perel wrote based on her professional experience and research, which was more international than i expected, and does an admirable job of not casting judgement either way.

while it was an interesting and educational read, i am drawing a blank on whom to recommend it to.